We’re David and Lois McBeath. We live in Point Pleasant, WV – a small town along the Ohio River on the western side of the state. We have 2 sons. Austin is 15. He’s a sophomore at Pt. Pleasant High School. Darrell is almost 12. He’s in the 6th grade at Roosevelt Elementary.
We actually began our adoption journey more than 10 years ago. I saw an ad in the newspaper about Chinese babies. We called about it, but it just wasn’t even feasible at that time in our life. All these years, it was always there, stuck somewhere in the back of our minds. I don't know why exactly – it just was. The thought never completely went away.
We also talked off and on about having another child. Our house was only 3 bedrooms, and we know the boys could have been in a room together, but we didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. In the spring of 2006, for some reason (I don't recall exactly what) - it came up again. We started thinking and talking - why not? So we started checking into it more. We did a lot of research online. The more we found out, the more we felt a calling, a desire and even a need to do this.
We started the adoption and added onto the house all at the same time. It took about 6 months to get the paperwork together. Then about another month after we sent it to China for them to translate it and 'log us in' (11/6/06). That's when we started to officially wait.
We finally got "THE CALL" on 7/13/08. It was a Sunday afternoon! After 2 ½ years, we are finally going to get our baby!


Leila Ann McBeath, formally known as Shun Xi Yi, was born on Oct 29, 2007. She had a cleft lip and cleft palate. The lip has been repaired, but not the palate. (We'll have to do that when we get her home.) She's in the Children's Welfare Institute of Shunde District of Foshan City, which is located in the Guangdong Province, in the southern part of China.

Shunde, the hometown of flowers, is one of four cities under the jurisdiction of Foshan City. Covering an area of 806 sq meters and with a population of 1.05 million, Shunde City is situated in the middle of the fertile Pearl River Delta, between Guangzhou and Hong Kong. It was set up as a county in the 3rd year (1452 AD) of the Jintai reign of the Ming Dynasy (1368-1644), and conferred with the administrative status of a city in 1992 by the State Council.

Foshan City is also where the actor Bruce Lee was from.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Wednesday


I posted a bit prematurely on the medicine. She hates it. There are 2 kinds, but we mix them together. One is more of a western medicine, and the other is more of a Chinese herbal type medicine. It's dark brown, and really stinks.
I don't know if this medicine makes her sleepy or if she's just a sleepy baby, but she sleeps really well. We put her to bed at 10:00 last night, and had to wake her at 7:00 this morning, so we could go to breakfast before we left for our appointment at the Civil Affairs Office.
She wasn't eating at first, but now she is. That makes me feel better. We were making her bottle room temperature (since we don't have a microwave), but Rosa (our guide) called the orphanage and they said to heat it. That was the problem.
Another thing, we've been told over and over about how Chinese people believe that babies need to be covered - long pants and long sleeves. Turns out that's not the case so much here in Guangzhou. It's SO hot here, that we don't have to do that. She can wear shorts and short sleeves both.
David was worried to death that she would be afraid of him. (Often times babies from the orphanages are, since many may never have seen men before - especially caucasian men.) He's so relieved that she's not. She likes him, and even reaches for him. They say that usually the babies will cling to one person for awhile only. Leila seems to be okay with all of us. So far, so good. She's a very content baby.
Another thing, people from northern China tend to be taller than people from southern China. Since Leila is from southern China, Rosa said that she'll probably be short.
We went back to the Civil Affairs Office this morning. I guess we had sort of a 24 hr return policy. They asked us if we were satisfied with her. When we said yes, they then had us sign papers. That made her legally ours as far as China is concerned.
Our hotel has several restaurants. So far we've only eaten in one and that was for breakfast the past couple of days. It's the one at the top - on the 45th floor and it revolves. Beijing is big, but Guangzhou looks huge. Rosa says Beijing is bigger, but from up there, it doesn't look it. Our room is on the 33rd floor. Coming up on the elevator actually makes your ears pop. The night we checked in - there was a guy in a white tux with tails playing piano in the lobby!

4 comments:

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Unknown said...

Just wanted to say Hi
an let you know I am
reading your blog.
Its really neat.
Took me awhile to figure
out how to send a comment.
Can't wait to see Leila.
Take care. Gayla

Macatopia said...

hello Austin, Derral(thats spelt rong, so is that) Lois And David. I hope your trip is high and exciting, that baby is going to be a real good person. I hope your trip has given you the opertunity to expieriance real chinese cuisine. Everyone in the troop sends their regards. and were having deer meat silver turtles on the campout this weekend, well save some for you.
Best of wishes,
Mac

Carla said...

Oh you have ROSA!!!! I loved her!!!!

I can tell you Katie, who just turned 2, is tiny and she's from Southern China. :)