We’re David and Lois McBeath. We live in Point Pleasant, WV – a small town along the Ohio River on the western side of the state. We have 2 sons. Austin is 15. He’s a sophomore at Pt. Pleasant High School. Darrell is almost 12. He’s in the 6th grade at Roosevelt Elementary.
We actually began our adoption journey more than 10 years ago. I saw an ad in the newspaper about Chinese babies. We called about it, but it just wasn’t even feasible at that time in our life. All these years, it was always there, stuck somewhere in the back of our minds. I don't know why exactly – it just was. The thought never completely went away.
We also talked off and on about having another child. Our house was only 3 bedrooms, and we know the boys could have been in a room together, but we didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. In the spring of 2006, for some reason (I don't recall exactly what) - it came up again. We started thinking and talking - why not? So we started checking into it more. We did a lot of research online. The more we found out, the more we felt a calling, a desire and even a need to do this.
We started the adoption and added onto the house all at the same time. It took about 6 months to get the paperwork together. Then about another month after we sent it to China for them to translate it and 'log us in' (11/6/06). That's when we started to officially wait.
We finally got "THE CALL" on 7/13/08. It was a Sunday afternoon! After 2 ½ years, we are finally going to get our baby!


Leila Ann McBeath, formally known as Shun Xi Yi, was born on Oct 29, 2007. She had a cleft lip and cleft palate. The lip has been repaired, but not the palate. (We'll have to do that when we get her home.) She's in the Children's Welfare Institute of Shunde District of Foshan City, which is located in the Guangdong Province, in the southern part of China.

Shunde, the hometown of flowers, is one of four cities under the jurisdiction of Foshan City. Covering an area of 806 sq meters and with a population of 1.05 million, Shunde City is situated in the middle of the fertile Pearl River Delta, between Guangzhou and Hong Kong. It was set up as a county in the 3rd year (1452 AD) of the Jintai reign of the Ming Dynasy (1368-1644), and conferred with the administrative status of a city in 1992 by the State Council.

Foshan City is also where the actor Bruce Lee was from.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Day 2


HAPPY MOON FESTIVAL!
FYI - I'm able to get my email, but I don't seem to be able to send email.
I couldn't update last night, I couldn't get online.
A few notes about China. China seems to be a very clean place so far. We were talking to a man yesterday, and he told us that they recycle trash to make electric - maybe that's why.
Another thing, Chinese people are very friendly, polite people. For instance, there was a really nice (Korean?) man helping Darrell with his chopsticks at breakfast.
By the way, I'm getting pretty good at squatty potties.
We started out yesterday by going to church. It was an international church service, but regular Chinese people are not allowed in. We had to show our passport to get in. Our guide had to wait outside. We sat on the 3rd floor balcony. The building is a theatre the other 6 days a week, and a church on Sundays. That must have been the sleeping section, because I counted 14 people asleep. We only sang one time, but it was a like 3 songs at once - it lasted about 15 minutes. It would be in Chinese, then English, then Chinese, then English, then Chinese and on and on and on. The sermon was the same way, it was in English first, and then in Chinese.
There are 5 legal religions in China. If someone is in the military or works for the government though, they are not allowed to proclaim a particular religion. They are also not allowed to marry until age 23 or apply for a certificate to have their child until age 25. Chinese people do not see this as consticting though. They have much more freedom than ever before.
On the way out, part of the kids in our group were offered a small spotlight on some Chinese television show. Alas, we had to turn them down.
Some of the blonds in our group are quite popular here. We get stopped a lot to pose for pictures - sometimes alone and sometimes with other people.
We went to a jade factory, and to a cloisonne factory. I had no idea how tedious the work is making that stuff. It was so amazing. If I make that stuff, I'd charge a fortune for it.
After that we went to the Great Wall. It was a surreal experience. The mountains we saw flying in - that's where the Great Wall is. I can't imagine the people that built it, way back when, because just walking on it is really, really something. We walked together for awhile, and then of course three of the boys took off. I don't even know how far they went, but I know it was a lot farther than we did.
We check out of this hotel this afternoon. We are flying to Guangzhou on China Air later today. We get Leila tomorrow.

2 comments:

tkclingenpeel said...

Glad you had a safe trip and are enjoying the experience. Know you are excited about getting Lelia Ann tomorrow. This blog is very interesting and I think will be a great way of preserving some of the memories. Wishing you continued safe travels.
Tina

MommaHen said...

Lois, I have thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog! It's very interesting as well as educating and sounds as though each of you are having a lot of great new experiences.
I'm excited to know you're getting Leila today and can't wait to see pictures of all of you as a family!!!
Today is Wayne's birthday so the fact you're geting her today has a special meaning for me.
Continue to enjoy your trip and most importantly enjoy your new daughter, Leila Ann!Love you!
Phyliss