We’re David and Lois McBeath. We live in Point Pleasant, WV – a small town along the Ohio River on the western side of the state. We have 2 sons. Austin is 15. He’s a sophomore at Pt. Pleasant High School. Darrell is almost 12. He’s in the 6th grade at Roosevelt Elementary.
We actually began our adoption journey more than 10 years ago. I saw an ad in the newspaper about Chinese babies. We called about it, but it just wasn’t even feasible at that time in our life. All these years, it was always there, stuck somewhere in the back of our minds. I don't know why exactly – it just was. The thought never completely went away.
We also talked off and on about having another child. Our house was only 3 bedrooms, and we know the boys could have been in a room together, but we didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. In the spring of 2006, for some reason (I don't recall exactly what) - it came up again. We started thinking and talking - why not? So we started checking into it more. We did a lot of research online. The more we found out, the more we felt a calling, a desire and even a need to do this.
We started the adoption and added onto the house all at the same time. It took about 6 months to get the paperwork together. Then about another month after we sent it to China for them to translate it and 'log us in' (11/6/06). That's when we started to officially wait.
We finally got "THE CALL" on 7/13/08. It was a Sunday afternoon! After 2 ½ years, we are finally going to get our baby!


Leila Ann McBeath, formally known as Shun Xi Yi, was born on Oct 29, 2007. She had a cleft lip and cleft palate. The lip has been repaired, but not the palate. (We'll have to do that when we get her home.) She's in the Children's Welfare Institute of Shunde District of Foshan City, which is located in the Guangdong Province, in the southern part of China.

Shunde, the hometown of flowers, is one of four cities under the jurisdiction of Foshan City. Covering an area of 806 sq meters and with a population of 1.05 million, Shunde City is situated in the middle of the fertile Pearl River Delta, between Guangzhou and Hong Kong. It was set up as a county in the 3rd year (1452 AD) of the Jintai reign of the Ming Dynasy (1368-1644), and conferred with the administrative status of a city in 1992 by the State Council.

Foshan City is also where the actor Bruce Lee was from.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Saturday




We went to another park today. It was about an hour away. It was really pretty though. They had lots of koi all thru it - really big koi. We saw kidney bean flavored ice cream, but decided not to get it.
While we were there they were filming a video for something like Chinese MTV. There was a little girl that had won something like Chinse American Idol. (So cute.) And all these other little girls dressed up in different traditional Chinese dress were the back-up dancers. I think she was lip-syncing though. There are 56 different ethnic groups in China. 92% are made up of the Han group and the other 8% are the other 55.
his has been an amazing experience, but I'm really getting ready to come home. I miss America. I'm getting tired of not being able to drink the water. Of having to rinse my toothbrush with bottled water. Of having to boil water to make bottles. 2 English speaking tv channels. Lots of little things that we normally take for granted.
Laundry is a whole other issue. I thought I'd do laundry here at the hotel. Not so. You can't do laundry. You have to have it done. People don't own washing machines. Most everyone washes their clothes out in the sink. I had even gone to the laundramat and bought little one load boxes of detergent to do laundry. It did me no good. I have to send it out. Rosa can send it somewhere for less than 1/2 what the hotel will charge, but it's still really pricey. I've started washing what I can out in the sink (what will dry rather quickly) and hanging it all over the bathroom each evening. (It rather looks like a Chinese laundry.) What we have sent out, is done really well though. I sent it out in a couple of trash bags. It came back in their bags. BUT, each shirt was in it's own plastic bag, all the socks were in a plastic bag, each persons underwear was in a plastic bag - even my trash bags came back in a plastic bag!
Leila seems to be feeling better today. That REALLY helps. The 6-9 month clothes that I brought fit her lengthwise, but everything is too big thru. All the pants fall off of her. She has no butt. Austin said she needs a belt. I told him that they don't make belts for babies. He's decided that a dog collar would work fine.
We have no plans tomorrow. We've decided to take a taxi and venture out on our own. Pray for us on that one. The roads here are unreal. Not the roads, but the drivers. One of the other families in our group, described crossing the road like playing a game of Frogger.

1 comment:

MommaHen said...

Poor Leila, already her big brother is trying to put a dog collar on her! LOL
Even with a 'normal' vacation, it's nice for 5-7days but is always good to get back home so I can only imagine how much more anxious each of you are to get back to the good ole USA!!!