We’re David and Lois McBeath. We live in Point Pleasant, WV – a small town along the Ohio River on the western side of the state. We have 2 sons. Austin is 15. He’s a sophomore at Pt. Pleasant High School. Darrell is almost 12. He’s in the 6th grade at Roosevelt Elementary.
We actually began our adoption journey more than 10 years ago. I saw an ad in the newspaper about Chinese babies. We called about it, but it just wasn’t even feasible at that time in our life. All these years, it was always there, stuck somewhere in the back of our minds. I don't know why exactly – it just was. The thought never completely went away.
We also talked off and on about having another child. Our house was only 3 bedrooms, and we know the boys could have been in a room together, but we didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. In the spring of 2006, for some reason (I don't recall exactly what) - it came up again. We started thinking and talking - why not? So we started checking into it more. We did a lot of research online. The more we found out, the more we felt a calling, a desire and even a need to do this.
We started the adoption and added onto the house all at the same time. It took about 6 months to get the paperwork together. Then about another month after we sent it to China for them to translate it and 'log us in' (11/6/06). That's when we started to officially wait.
We finally got "THE CALL" on 7/13/08. It was a Sunday afternoon! After 2 ½ years, we are finally going to get our baby!
We actually began our adoption journey more than 10 years ago. I saw an ad in the newspaper about Chinese babies. We called about it, but it just wasn’t even feasible at that time in our life. All these years, it was always there, stuck somewhere in the back of our minds. I don't know why exactly – it just was. The thought never completely went away.
We also talked off and on about having another child. Our house was only 3 bedrooms, and we know the boys could have been in a room together, but we didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. In the spring of 2006, for some reason (I don't recall exactly what) - it came up again. We started thinking and talking - why not? So we started checking into it more. We did a lot of research online. The more we found out, the more we felt a calling, a desire and even a need to do this.
We started the adoption and added onto the house all at the same time. It took about 6 months to get the paperwork together. Then about another month after we sent it to China for them to translate it and 'log us in' (11/6/06). That's when we started to officially wait.
We finally got "THE CALL" on 7/13/08. It was a Sunday afternoon! After 2 ½ years, we are finally going to get our baby!
Leila Ann McBeath, formally known as Shun Xi Yi, was born on Oct 29, 2007. She had a cleft lip and cleft palate. The lip has been repaired, but not the palate. (We'll have to do that when we get her home.) She's in the Children's Welfare Institute of Shunde District of Foshan City, which is located in the Guangdong Province, in the southern part of China.
Shunde, the hometown of flowers, is one of four cities under the jurisdiction of Foshan City. Covering an area of 806 sq meters and with a population of 1.05 million, Shunde City is situated in the middle of the fertile Pearl River Delta, between Guangzhou and Hong Kong. It was set up as a county in the 3rd year (1452 AD) of the Jintai reign of the Ming Dynasy (1368-1644), and conferred with the administrative status of a city in 1992 by the State Council.
Foshan City is also where the actor Bruce Lee was from.
Shunde, the hometown of flowers, is one of four cities under the jurisdiction of Foshan City. Covering an area of 806 sq meters and with a population of 1.05 million, Shunde City is situated in the middle of the fertile Pearl River Delta, between Guangzhou and Hong Kong. It was set up as a county in the 3rd year (1452 AD) of the Jintai reign of the Ming Dynasy (1368-1644), and conferred with the administrative status of a city in 1992 by the State Council.
Foshan City is also where the actor Bruce Lee was from.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Tuesday - 9/23
The rest of our group arrived at various times yesterday. I can't tell you how good it was to see them all. People that were strangers a week and a half ago, are now allies and friends in this foreign land. They were truly a site for sore eyes. As homesick as we were getting, it all seems so much more bearable now. And to hear some of their stories about the places they've been and the provinces they went to - it seems as though we've been sitting (as one lady put it) in the 'promised land' all this time.
After breakfast, one person from each family (me) went to a 'paperwork party'. We filled out several papers and forms that had to be done for the rest of the appts and such that still need to be completed before we can bring the children home.
This afternoon, all the babies had their medical exams. It wasn't a very detailed exam. There were 3 stations. At the 1st station, they were weighed and measured. Leila weighs 14.8 lbs, and is 25 inches long. At the 2nd station, they checked her eyes, ears, and mouth. She did NOT like that. (That does not bode well considering the medical procedures that await us upon return to the states.) At the final station, they listened to her heart and lungs. That was it.
We then stopped at a grocery store so the families that arrived yesterday could get water and whatever else they needed.
Tonight, we decided to splurge on dinner. We ate at one of the restaurants in our hotel with the Christians family. It was a Japanese restaurant, but it did have chairs. (One of them here doesn't - you have to sit on the floor.) We had a good time, and the food was good, but it was really pricey. We won't be going back there. After the chefs finished cooking, they passed Leila back and forth while we finished eating.
I learned some more interesting facts today.
There is no drinking age in China - beer is sold in vending machines like coke.
Marijuana is legal and grows in public.
It's legal (but not really admirable) for men to beat women.
BUT, it's illegal to talk on a cell phone while driving.
Their is no tooth fairy in China. If you lose a tooth from the top, you throw it on the roof, but if you lose a tooth from the bottom, you throw it in the ditch.
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3 comments:
Darrell,
Hey Darrell it's Kenzie so your sister did good at her health exam.Whats the money like there?Well Mawmaw said that you couldn't send me any thing back so tell me you get back!See ya!
Your Friend,
Kenzie
I just love the little trivia things you write about. Beer in a vending machine.......that makes me laugh.
Beating a woman is legal? That is sad but to tell you the truth, I think it is legal here too.
I bet you are getting so homesick. I cannot imagine being somewhere that long when there are not very many familiar things around.
TAKE CARE!
Wendy
Just wanted to say Hey an
let you know I enjoy keeping
up with what you all are doing
Gayla
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