Wednesday, October 1, 2008

10/1

When we got home on Sat, I found that our friends (Lisa and Renee) had cleaned my house. AND, Lisa made and left me homemade chicken & noodles and brownies (my favorites). That helped so much. I've had so much to do this week, with getting settled - that was something I didn't have to worry about right away.

Every day gets a little easier. Night and day is finally switched back to US time. Jet lag is almost gone.

Up to this point, Leila has only had a bottle with cereal in it - no 'regular' food at all. I didn't want to try to change anything while still in China though. I thought I'd wait until we got home and then start food. I thought I'd start with cereal, since she has it in every bottle anyway. I figured it would be the same thing - just a different method of delivery. She does not agree with this new approach. We started on Mon. She screamed. Every time she'd open her mouth for a breath, I'd stick some in. But she still absolutely refused to swallow it.
On Tues, same thing, but she merely cried instead of screaming. I thought we were making progess. Today - she actually swallowed a bite! WooHoo! At this rate, she'll be eating table food by the time she's 5.

I took her into Darrell's school today so everyone could meet her. (His 6th grade class has been following the blog.) When we got there, they had a basket full of baby gifts for her! How neat was that?! All the teachers passed her around (and a few students too). Thankfully she didn't spit up on any of them.

I tried to appy for her US birth certificate today, but I got nowhere. There was one particular woman at the courthouse that was just really hateful too. If she didn't know what to do, she could have just said so, w/o being such a witch about it.
Even though her adoption is legal and binding in China, it's suggested that we re-adopt her in the US. Another lady at the courthouse said that she thought we needed to do that first. I don't think so - I think they just didn't know what to do, so it's easier to pass it off on someone else and not bother. I guess I need to consult an attorney and go from there.

So now, I've got to get the insurance straightened out, get her re-adopted, get a US birth certificate, and possibly a US passport. I don't know if that's all or not. I keep thinking - I made it thru all the other paperwork, surely I can get thru this too.
Oh, and someday - I'm going to print out the pictures we took while we were there.

Something else that I kept meaning to mention but always forgot - you don't have to tip in China. Tipping waiters and people like that, is considered insulting. The only people we had to tip was the bellboy. $1 USD for 2 medium size bags is about 'right'. And yet, we got absolutely excellent service at all the restaurants - WAY better than you normally get in the US.

1 comment:

  1. I thought I would let you know, you do have to re adopt to be issued a birth certificate. At least that is how it is in Ohio, every state is a little different though. We should get a pack from AWAA with info on how to do most of this. You will also have to wait till you get your citizenship papers to do most of the
    "welcome home" paperwork. While she is a citizen already (the stamp in her passport proves that) she needs the papers you will get in about 45 days or so, so really at this point you are on hold, yet again. As far as insurance goes all they need is a copy of your "red book" to prove the adoption was final on said date! Hope this helps!
    Talk to you soon!

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