TIKE - Toddler Info Kept for Emergencies
This is one of the most practical things I hope I never need. A lady I know at the health dept gave them to me. It's a sticker that you put on either the back or bottom of the car seat or booster seat. It contains pertinent identifying information that emergency personnel would need if there were an accident and the adults in the vehicle were disabled. What a great idea! If you (or someone you know) needs some, check with your local health dept or go to www.ohioinsurance.org to get yours.
We’re David and Lois McBeath. We live in Point Pleasant, WV – a small town along the Ohio River on the western side of the state. We have 2 sons. Austin is 15. He’s a sophomore at Pt. Pleasant High School. Darrell is almost 12. He’s in the 6th grade at Roosevelt Elementary.
We actually began our adoption journey more than 10 years ago. I saw an ad in the newspaper about Chinese babies. We called about it, but it just wasn’t even feasible at that time in our life. All these years, it was always there, stuck somewhere in the back of our minds. I don't know why exactly – it just was. The thought never completely went away.
We also talked off and on about having another child. Our house was only 3 bedrooms, and we know the boys could have been in a room together, but we didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. In the spring of 2006, for some reason (I don't recall exactly what) - it came up again. We started thinking and talking - why not? So we started checking into it more. We did a lot of research online. The more we found out, the more we felt a calling, a desire and even a need to do this.
We started the adoption and added onto the house all at the same time. It took about 6 months to get the paperwork together. Then about another month after we sent it to China for them to translate it and 'log us in' (11/6/06). That's when we started to officially wait.
We finally got "THE CALL" on 7/13/08. It was a Sunday afternoon! After 2 ½ years, we are finally going to get our baby!
We actually began our adoption journey more than 10 years ago. I saw an ad in the newspaper about Chinese babies. We called about it, but it just wasn’t even feasible at that time in our life. All these years, it was always there, stuck somewhere in the back of our minds. I don't know why exactly – it just was. The thought never completely went away.
We also talked off and on about having another child. Our house was only 3 bedrooms, and we know the boys could have been in a room together, but we didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. In the spring of 2006, for some reason (I don't recall exactly what) - it came up again. We started thinking and talking - why not? So we started checking into it more. We did a lot of research online. The more we found out, the more we felt a calling, a desire and even a need to do this.
We started the adoption and added onto the house all at the same time. It took about 6 months to get the paperwork together. Then about another month after we sent it to China for them to translate it and 'log us in' (11/6/06). That's when we started to officially wait.
We finally got "THE CALL" on 7/13/08. It was a Sunday afternoon! After 2 ½ years, we are finally going to get our baby!
Leila Ann McBeath, formally known as Shun Xi Yi, was born on Oct 29, 2007. She had a cleft lip and cleft palate. The lip has been repaired, but not the palate. (We'll have to do that when we get her home.) She's in the Children's Welfare Institute of Shunde District of Foshan City, which is located in the Guangdong Province, in the southern part of China.
Shunde, the hometown of flowers, is one of four cities under the jurisdiction of Foshan City. Covering an area of 806 sq meters and with a population of 1.05 million, Shunde City is situated in the middle of the fertile Pearl River Delta, between Guangzhou and Hong Kong. It was set up as a county in the 3rd year (1452 AD) of the Jintai reign of the Ming Dynasy (1368-1644), and conferred with the administrative status of a city in 1992 by the State Council.
Foshan City is also where the actor Bruce Lee was from.
Shunde, the hometown of flowers, is one of four cities under the jurisdiction of Foshan City. Covering an area of 806 sq meters and with a population of 1.05 million, Shunde City is situated in the middle of the fertile Pearl River Delta, between Guangzhou and Hong Kong. It was set up as a county in the 3rd year (1452 AD) of the Jintai reign of the Ming Dynasy (1368-1644), and conferred with the administrative status of a city in 1992 by the State Council.
Foshan City is also where the actor Bruce Lee was from.
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Monday, July 27, 2009
China Reunion
What a great weekend! We traveled up into OH (only about 3 hr drive) to get together with some of the families that we went to China with last Sept. 5 of our families were able to make it.
The weather wasn't quite as sunny and warm as we might have liked, but we only had a little bit of rain. The kids were still able to play outside. We had some great food. But most of all - it was SO good to see everyone. We spent a wonderful day visting and catching up - actully in person, not on computers.
The girls are growing and thriving. Their personalities are blossoming. They've all changed SO much in the last 10 months.
I only hope we can get together many, many more times in the future.
Our group - taken by a very accomodating neighbor.
Five China Dolls - Claire, Katey, Emmali, Anna Kathryn, and Leila
Look how cute - homemade fortune cookies! Erin made these for Claire to give out. I put the box up to keep, and put the 'cookies' in Leila's little kitchen to play with. Hmmmm, maybe I'll try to figure out how to do these one of these days.
The weather wasn't quite as sunny and warm as we might have liked, but we only had a little bit of rain. The kids were still able to play outside. We had some great food. But most of all - it was SO good to see everyone. We spent a wonderful day visting and catching up - actully in person, not on computers.
The girls are growing and thriving. Their personalities are blossoming. They've all changed SO much in the last 10 months.
I only hope we can get together many, many more times in the future.
Our group - taken by a very accomodating neighbor.
Five China Dolls - Claire, Katey, Emmali, Anna Kathryn, and Leila
Look how cute - homemade fortune cookies! Erin made these for Claire to give out. I put the box up to keep, and put the 'cookies' in Leila's little kitchen to play with. Hmmmm, maybe I'll try to figure out how to do these one of these days.
Monday, July 13, 2009
1 year
It's been one year today since we got 'The Call'. We had dropped the boys off at camp. We really weren't expecting to hear anything, after all it was a Sun afternoon. When we got back to the truck, we both had missed calls on our phones. When we looked at the number - it was America World. We called them back and left a message. Within minutes, Melissa called back. They had a baby for us! Since we were an hour from home, I knew I couldn't wait that long. I had her send the info to David's phone. By that point, we were in 'Michaels', dropping off a picture to be framed - that's where we first saw Leila's face. Then we had to go back to the camp and find the boys to tell and show them. We stopped first at a Chinese restaurant and bought fortune cookies for the boys to pass out around the campfire that night in celebration. Then we had to fly up the road to make it to church in time.
And look how rotten she is now!
And look how rotten she is now!
Friday, July 10, 2009
A Fashion Statement & New Laws
Like I've said before, Leila LOVES to go. You would think that if she doesn't get to go somewhere (anywhere) every day, that we're being mean to her. She can be so fussy, but as soon as she's headed for the door - boom, she's a happy camper again. And as long as we're out and going, she's usually good - no matter how tired she is.
We went down to see the boys last night at camp. Didn't get home until after 10:00. She'd only had about 1/2 hour nap all day, and yet she was fine. She was out.
I took this picture last week. She put Mama's shoes on (doesn't even really have to be HER shoes). She conned her Aunt Juanita into putting both sweaters on her (yes, it's July, but a coat definitely means she's going somewhere). Now, I don't know about the 'hat', but I'm sure there's a reason for it.
At least she makes a fashion statement!
Austin is not happy this week. WV has passed a new law affecting underage drivers. One of the biggest changes that affects him is that in the first 6 months of having his license (until Dec 8), he is not allowed to have any non-family members in the car with him. That means - no friends, no DATES - only Darrell. For the next 6 months after that (until next Jun), he may only have one. They're also moving the curfew back to 10 PM - with the exception of church and school activities or emergencies.
He even offered us a 'deal'. He said that he would take his chances, and if he gets a ticket - then he'll pay it. NO - not happening. There's way more to it than a possible ticket. Yes there's that, but there's also insurance. There's the fact that if he were in an accident and someone got hurt - as his parents, we could be sued for everything we don't own. (At 16, common sense does not always rule.)
We gave him an alternate 'choice'. He doesn't have to like, but he does have to follow it. If not, we can take his truck - now or later.
Do I feel sorry for him - yes. Do I completely agree with it - no. Do I think it's a bit harsh - yes. But it's still the law (effective today). We don't get to pick and choose which rules and laws we want to abide by. It may not seem fair (and he certainly doesn't think it is), but it is what it is.
We went down to see the boys last night at camp. Didn't get home until after 10:00. She'd only had about 1/2 hour nap all day, and yet she was fine. She was out.
I took this picture last week. She put Mama's shoes on (doesn't even really have to be HER shoes). She conned her Aunt Juanita into putting both sweaters on her (yes, it's July, but a coat definitely means she's going somewhere). Now, I don't know about the 'hat', but I'm sure there's a reason for it.
At least she makes a fashion statement!
Austin is not happy this week. WV has passed a new law affecting underage drivers. One of the biggest changes that affects him is that in the first 6 months of having his license (until Dec 8), he is not allowed to have any non-family members in the car with him. That means - no friends, no DATES - only Darrell. For the next 6 months after that (until next Jun), he may only have one. They're also moving the curfew back to 10 PM - with the exception of church and school activities or emergencies.
He even offered us a 'deal'. He said that he would take his chances, and if he gets a ticket - then he'll pay it. NO - not happening. There's way more to it than a possible ticket. Yes there's that, but there's also insurance. There's the fact that if he were in an accident and someone got hurt - as his parents, we could be sued for everything we don't own. (At 16, common sense does not always rule.)
We gave him an alternate 'choice'. He doesn't have to like, but he does have to follow it. If not, we can take his truck - now or later.
Do I feel sorry for him - yes. Do I completely agree with it - no. Do I think it's a bit harsh - yes. But it's still the law (effective today). We don't get to pick and choose which rules and laws we want to abide by. It may not seem fair (and he certainly doesn't think it is), but it is what it is.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Late 4th Wishes
Hope everyone had a good 4th of July.
I've been meaning to post, but just haven't had a chance.
Our weekend was good.
We had a family reunion. This was just my Dad's immediate family. Keep in mind though that there were 12 kids in his family. Now those kids have kids, who have kids, who have kids, and so on. Everyone couldn't make it of course, but still - this one little family reunion is pretty big. (And for the most part - they like each other!) I love seeing everyone. I just wish we could see them more often.
Later that night, we took the boat out. We stopped at the regatta for awhile and then went out on the river to watch the fireworks.
The first 10-15 minutes had Leila completely mesmorized. After that, it was just the same ole thing over and over.
She had her 2nd speech session today. She's really starting to try to imitate more and more. And I think she's starting to suck a little bit too. We've noticed it some with her sippy cup. That will be so nice once she learns to drink from a straw.
Both boys are gone this week too. It sure seems quiet around here.
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